Friday, August 17, 2007

Interesting stuff

Who's gonna pay the bill?!!

I'm not sure how this works ,but one thing I can tell u 4 sure iz :it took me a while to master the fine art of (paying the bill)
A -in my early stages I used to often get nervous while not knowing what to do exactly I find myself grapping a large bill from my purse and paying 4 the whole group( my stomach still hurt when I remember buying a family meal 4 only 2 girls((balayoo ,cadanko sure have calool wayn))

b- then I grew up a little n I started letting every1 pay 4 their own meal, makes sense .right!!,well the only problem here is that used to get over sensitive when any1 tries to pay anything for me even if it's as simple as a chocolate bar, why! Only ALLAH knows so don't ask!!

c.final stage,the only way that actually works for us, is taking turns (no one will actually admit we r doing so)but still!!! we do it anyways…!!
Ps: this way works 4 my new friends, the old ONES were greedy n maseebo(thank god I got rid if them)

Five mints:


I haven't heard from some1spceial to my heart in a long time(3 weeks),n while contemplating the possibility of me leaving that person ,or if I could live without out that person i ended up calling this special someone n it only took me five mints to remember all the love that fills m heart and I felt terrible for not being more understanding, so without sharing any of my stupid concerns with that person ,i forgave myself fo missing them so much!! b/c well,i'm only Human!!!

Qabil:


I love 2 know more about qabil, my friend's qabil, my famil MEMBERS qabil, n down to their(reer),,this started very recently I happen (to the contrary of many of my peers)to find this whole new world very exciting
, I have to mention I don't care who fought who n what happened in the past, but I find it amazing to know how ppl come together n wlc each other with love and hospitality just bc they r from the same qabil or part of the country, however, I strongly disagree with the hatred and hostility we find among certain qabils ,and I think ppl like arabs r more than proud of their own qabil,and they have all the respect in the world for other qabils ,soo when I see this example in front of my eyes ,I often wonder, why can't we be like that!?!!!!


Center of the universe:


Every1 heard how an only child is selfish, ,needy, a bit self observed t, well well,guess what I'm afraid I'm becoming that way, uhh,,I'm not an ONLY child al7amdolehhah,but my siblings r studying abroad my nd mumy nd dady(check how I say mumy instead if mum..uhh))r home alone…
I have my mum begging me(literally) to eat some more ,my dad being atypical Somali dad, shows his affection through giving me materialistic stuff ,and plenty of advice, I'm trying to fight how I become, I keep reminding myself that PEAPLE have lives, I can't expect every1 to call me all that time or I don't know have something more important to do, how many ppl do noting more than eat,sleep.go online,watch tv,n sleep some more(who)??hu!!!ok a lot of ppl..lollll..but that's beside the point, the ones I know r not that way,so I guess I should learn to live with my choices,, uhh

Danbega iyo neyada
Guilt and intention


I heard a sheikh once say that as long u don't have any bad thoughts u can watch whatever u want (I don't want to misquote him ,but I'm pretty sure that's what he meant)so last night I was watching an old Arabic movie starring layla 3elwi nd yosra where most of the scenes happen to take place IN bed,,,ok..this is soo not what u u'll r thinking ,of course there were a few kisses, but the movie was hilarious even when they were on the bed kissing or whatever I was laughing so hard cuz his other wife was under the bed trying to scare them off somehow,,,soo foolishly I tried to include my mum so we can watch the movie 2gether,GOD!!what was I thinking, all she saw was a half naked man ,n 2 women in their night gown…so u guess how the evening ended ..AXXX….anyways I watched the rerun the next Day..allll by myself..loll…soo seriously I'm wondering is what that sheikh said..correct..i sure hope so:-)


4 comments:

Aya said...

إيمان، الأخ الشيخ كان لاز م يتعب نفسه شويه و يقول إن الناس تحاسب على الأعمل فقط ولا غير. بتغاظ كثير لما المشايخ يسفسطوا على كل شئ وحرموا حتى التفكير.

LOL @ balayoo ,cadanko sure have calool wayn, I KNOW! I find the best things about restaurants here is that they don't assume that the bill will be for everyone. Once they ask, every person gets their bill and must leave their own tip. It's easier that way because some people eat a lot more than others.

Hopeless Dreamer said...

Funny. It's actually considered (embarrassing) that every ones pay 4 her portion..some1 might say..i'll pay nd u can pay me back later, some do. But unfortunately most Don't,,,owchhh
Many things r considered xaram. These days .I can't keep up..as long as we have good niya nd faith..that is all that matters

Firefly said...

LoL...you are so cute!

We take turns picking up bills too. But there aren't many of us, so it's usually not more than we can afford to pay. If I'm dining with big groups, I calculate how much I owe + tip and that's all I contribute. I refuse to pay for people I don't know/like/or who have been drinking.

q said...

lool, its tough at times; i personally hate having anything i eat paid for...i prefer payin for it myself but when i'm with close friends we take turns like you mentioned.

as for the movie..lol you tried watchin it with your mom?? dudette you're brave eh! i cant quote any hadiith but i think its all about your intentions. look into it...

love how you talk about so many different things and yet connect them.

ramadan kariim!!